Crazy Traffic Here in Blogspot

This is a bit amusing. I found anybody ever googled "ferinda partiningrum" and got this link of mine. GOD, someone but myself ever googled me..... I'm so flattered.

One Fine Day

When you're tired, take a rest. One fine day for a geek like me is spending hours in front of mac, accepting friend requests on Facebook even it feels lame while munching Maicih or Pringles, tweeting from Tweetdeck, taking pictures and get them edited on Toycamera AnalogColor, thanks to Dayen for driving me nuts about that awesome apps, chatting with a long lost friend in States via Skype, and blogwalking. The easiest way for me to find my inner peace after meeting a lot of people, getting rid of college stuffs which Daddy told me to be serious in, and lots of activity is this, being a net-surfer, being a moody blogger, a Youtube watcher.
Well, you don't need to do everything in life, just things that can make you happy, yes?

Stay Cool

I have found out that life is gonna be bigger and more beautiful when you stop comparing and look a little bit closer. Beyond your own cranky mood, lying your not-relieved-yet tiredness. Beyond your no-smile mood, lying your unrevealed exhaustion. People can not always make you smile just like you can not always make them satisfied. Stop doing things and dealing with people that hurt you, especially when you're utterly easy to get down. Not all of them are gonna understand you and what you do.

But that is no problem! Remember there will be some who love you and appreciate you. I've read once today at a random place... life is like a mirror, when you smile at it, it will be extremely nice.
Good day and much love. :)

TGIF

taken from weheartit.com

Collecting random favorite pictures from weheartit.com like I used to do. I thank God for such spare time even on the evening I should have a rehearsal for a dance musical on December. Life seems quiet but it is not, when it's just too noisy you can't hear a thing. Life is really noisy, yet sparkling in another side.

I'm tremendously in love with my boyfriend. He bought me a Toffee Nut Latte  when I'd already ordered a Javachip Frappe then realized that it's a wrong decision to order icy beverage in this kind of weather. How lovely? :)

I know I should start over again to respect my own will, decision, thought, and myself. Don't wanna be tired and drained for nothing. At least, I know what I'm doing and why I do so... I just want this enough.

Friday should be relaxing and full of love. Choose love!

Cheers,

FPL

Probably now you're in the middle of doing something, something at first you didn't believe that you could be good at it, something you always like but never you took seriously, and perhaps it's a thing that you put a doubt very much. And then a situation approaches, when you finally know... your worries are only worries. You're much better than you thought. Isn't that lovely? :)

To Be True

"If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on."
- Steve Jobs


A little bit kicking. Yeah, the quote. Sometimes in life you stumble across things you have to do instead of things you really want to do. You got some people tell you to go to college (because everybody does). You take classes you yourself never get interested on what the lecturer saying. You take popular major because they say it will be easier to find a job later. You go to several organizations, follow them, and be a part of them because your friends do the same. You watch movie so you can talk about it later with the others. You quit writing your own diary because they state it's boring and ridiculous. You want a boyfriend because your best friends say you need one. You join dance classes yet you prefer to watch TV. You use Mac but never really understand what it can do for you. You like to sing but you stop, they say your voice is just so-so. You excel at reading and writing but you don't try to figure them out.


You end up living like anyone else does. You lose your control. You are wasted.

taken from weheartit.com

Thinking about what you want to do in your life is quite depressing. You're afraid of doing wrong things, dealing with darned people, stuck in things which are uncool, and more. In the end, we all choose to live regularly,  just like what they do, yes we do it too.  But anyway.... where's the fun in it?
Where's the fun in being the same? Being all customized by era. Being trapped in others do, others' things  while you practically lose your own thing. Totally messed up.


It's challenging to see what you want. To visualize what you actually want to do. To find the purpose in your life. To do stuffs you truly like. To be true to yourself. Don't go those majors they insist you should, take the one you're gonna enjoy the process. Take the passion with you, take it and never leave it. Don't dance because they say dancers are cool, dance because you mean it. Dance because when you don't do it it hurts you so bad. Build your own company. You want to be good? Practice! Learn! There ain't no other way. Nothing good comes for free, sweetheart.


Just like the bigger stuff like what you want to do in life, it goes the same way to the smaller target. You want a killer body? Go on diet! Be committed to your own purpose. Respect your dream. Drink a lot of water. You want to be a great writer? Type and write, type and write, think much and do much. Try blogging. Try short story. Try to twit a little bit more creative.
After all, it's all about trying and being true to yourself, your heart.


xxx
FPL

In Order To Be Happy

taken form weheartit.com

• Forgive - before you can move on all you need is forgiving and forgiveness.
• Let go - what is meant to be yours will always be yours.
• Smile a lot - it eases the pain and every heartache.
• Never take everything way too serious - no one else does
• Dress well - it increases your confidence
• Be with those who love you - why should bother who don't?
• Be grateful - what you have is what you always need
• Write down your dreams - they will come true
• Be good at something - it's just worth it
• Use your time properly - it never comes back
• Behave, say good things - they will return to you
• Be an Apple user - LOL

and follow your heart, your passion. It's never too late.

This is Not A First Love.....

......yet feels like one. <3

Thermal is My Favorite

Daily self-portraits. In the name of practicing good pose. :p

Breathe In

taken from weheartit.com

I woke up wondering what I want to do with my life. I mean, why at the first time I took my major in college. Why I considered to join stuffs I no longer enjoy doing nowadays. Why I quit writing lately. Why I gave up on my last relationship. Why I moved very fast. Why I no longer find some people nice and comforting anymore. And any other why-s. Decisions are decisions. Those are chosen by you and for the sake of everything you are the one who is in charge of them.

I hope this doesn't sound like me whining, or me being not grateful. I hope this is just like me, reflecting what I have inside. How negativity easily slides in when you're tired. How suspicious mind drags you to be a bitch than just keep being a nice one. I really should learn about how to handle those bad habits.

I want to be spirited, in love deeply, happy inside and outside, and enjoy what I do...........

Breathe in. Take all the positive vibes and keep smiling. Wish me luck for every business. There's always something to be smiled about. :)

Meet Roni

courtesy of @erinplstr

"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage."
 A beautiful quote from Lao Tzu.

Meet Roni the future engineer, the mood-dropper, the arrogant driver, the aspiring photographer, the Sunkist-eater, the liar, the sweet-talker, the manipulative boyfriend.
But I love him. Isn't that enough? I hope so.

Always Have, Always Will

All pictures taken from weheartit.com

A Beautiful Hello

taken from weheartit.com

I may not start typing this post by greeting you all, saying "what's up?", that's gonna be lame. Can we try another sentences, just like "HELLO GUYS HOW ARE YOU?" :p

It's raining outside, the mood has just driven me to practice writing in English again and adding more positivity through this blog. I hope you guys still remember me after a very long no writing phase.

What actually happen in that very long no writing phase?

MUCH!

First, I'm busy dancing. Second, I'm busy dancing. Third, I'm busy dancing. YES! I'm busy dancing in rehearsal for an upcoming show in DECEMBER. A HUGE SHOW. You all HAVE TO watch it. I'm gonna spill about it later. Pssst.. You already can get your ticket.

How's college?

So far couldn't be more fun and challenging. This week is the midterm test week so I need to take a break from the dancing business. I need to get focus on my study I guess. Tomorrow I'm gonna have some tests, I need some luck, and your praying for sure. This breezy weather got everyone sneezing. Better to take care of the health too.

Sending you all warm hugs and positive vibes. I keep my finger crossed to write here like I used to do. My writing skills become worse and it needs fixing asap. Be happy, be grateful for everything you have, for every moment you can rejoice, for every people who care. Life is a divine chaos. Embrace it.

xxx FPL

A Post-Heartbreak Post

Post-heartbreak.
I don't actually know what I should write here. I'm tweeting way too much. Sending people BBM way too much either, which I don't really like. They seem stealing my words.

This is a post-heartbreak post.
What to say? Tonight let me come with a bit-bitter kind of story. What to expect from a heart-breaking moment?

Everything is always going well and fine with you, sweetheart. We both know that. We always knew we were the best among the best. We knew it since the very first time. We knew that what others might say would only be words, we never really took care of them. We knew at the very first place that "whatever happens, it won't be that bad cause I got you".We were sure we could ace it. We just could.

But...... let's say time keeps moving, we are both changing. Damn, this is uneasy. Damn, I don't want to cry typing this. Damn, I don't want to wish we could make it just like we always did. Damn, I never want to make you sad. Damn distance. Damn no connection.

..................This is just us growing up. I twitted that. And I'm sure you're going in the same belief with me. We completed each other once, didn't we?
This is a post-heartbreak post. This is.

Nothing lasts forever. And yeah, I love you, but I'm letting go.
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Eid Al-Fitr Mubarak

Ramadhan was so huge. Lessons learned, opportunities knocked. Meeting new exciting people, getting into new routine I'd love to do. Facing some troubles, getting rid of them. Falling in love with certain people. Trying to forgive and moving on. Adding some degree in being patient, understanding that a smile somehow means a lot. Going for things I love the most, being passionate and good at them.
Be thankful of every single bless He pours. Alhamdulillah :--)

Yes, and now... another start.
Happy Eid Al-Fitr, dearests!<3

FPL♥
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I Keep This in Mind

..'Cause baby you're a firework, come on let your color burst.
Make them go oh oh oh!
You're gonna leave 'em falling down..

BELIEVE

"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" - Eleanor Roosevelt

A Shot

Hello, days are busy so here I am typing from an iMac in The Computer Centre of The Biggest Library in South East Asia. I miss writing so damn much. I miss telling you all how perfect days could be, how tears easily fall but I manage to hold on, how sometimes I hate to be okay and feel nothing towards disappointment, how I hate to twit badness and negativity but I can't barely handle that anymore, how some people can be sooooo fucked up, how the rest can be angels who take you through your days.

Who are you in my life? Just guess. You can be the angel..or probably you're the smarty pants I would like to get rid of.

Anyway, life is still dramatically amazing. I love it.

"Never give up. When your heart becomes tired, just walk with your legs - but move on." - Paulo Coelho

What I Sing This Whole Week

You were in college working part time waiting tables
Left a small town, never looked back
I was a flight risk with a fear of falling
Wondering why we bother with love if it never lasts

I say can you believe it?
As we're lying on the couch
The moment I could see it
Yes, yes, I can see it now

Do you remember we were sitting there by the water?
You put your arm around me for the first time
You made a rebel of a careless man's careful daughter
You are the best thing that's ever been mine

Flash forward and we're taking on the world together
And there's a drawer of my things at your place
You learn my secrets and you figure out why I'm guarded
You say we'll never make my parents' mistakes

But we got bills to pay
We got nothing figured out
When it was hard to take
Yes, yes, this is what I thought about

Do you remember we were sitting there by the water?
You put your arm around me for the first time
You made a rebel of a careless man's careful daughter
You are the best thing that's ever been mine

Do you remember all the city lights on the water?
You saw me start to believe for the first time
You made a rebel of a careless man's careful daughter
You are the best thing that's ever been mine

And I remember that fight, 2:30 a.m.
As everything was slipping right out of our hands
I ran out crying and you followed me out into the street

Braced myself for the goodbye
'Cause that's all I've ever known
Then you took me by surprise
You said I'll never leave you alone

You said I remember how we felt sitting by the water
And every time I look at you, it's like the first time
I fell in love with a careless man's careful daughter
She is the best thing that's ever been mine

Hold on, make it last
Hold on, never turn back
You made a rebel of a careless man's careful daughter
You are the best thing that's ever been mine

Do you believe it?
We're gonna make it now
I can see it
I can see it now

(Mine - Taylor Swift)

ROCKETEER!

With you right here, I'm a rocketeer, let's fly.

Once I was kid, I always believed that I would marry an astronaut. Sounds silly? Me myself always smirk everytime remember that fact. Well, all I know I'm gonna marry someone who truly picks me to the highest level of...maybe not the sky, maybe just as simple as happiness.
Not as cool as astronaut, though, but I believe this kinda guy really does exist.

"Dear anyone, do not cross your line or I'm gonna take you to the moon."

Okay, then.

Belajar untuk tahu apa yang kita mau itu sangat penting.

Je t'aime

I wanna be there just like, RIGHT NOOOOW. I really could scream for Paris anytime.
How's life, heartbeat?

"Mau curhat sedikit. Boleh?" tanya gadis itu lembut.
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Yang di seberang sana hanya tersenyum saja. Tak ada jawaban apapun, entah sepatah dua patah kata atau anggukan yang menyatakan setuju. "Saya tahu saya seharusnya mencintai anda lebih dari siapapun". Tak ada respon. Yang di seberang sana lagi-lagi hanya diam menatap tanpa letupan emosi. "Saya tahu tidak ada orang lain yang paling wajib mencintai anda selain saya". Yang di seberang sana tidak berkata, lagi. "Saya tahu apa yang anda inginkan". Tak ada balasan. "Saya tahu apa yang anda rasakan". Diam. "Saya tahu siapa anda, saya seharusnya jatuh cinta seluruhnya kepada anda, saya sepatutnya menjalankan apa yang anda impikan". Yang di seberang sana meneteskan air mata. "Maafkan saya, untuk selalu sulit menerima kekurangan anda, selalu mengeluh atas kelemahan anda, membantah segala keinginan anda, memberikan jutaan alasan untuk menjauh dari tujuan anda. Maafkan saya telah membohongi perasaan anda, mengingkarinya. Maafkan saya sering berkata yang berlawanan dengan maksud anda, maafkan saya mencaci maki kebimbangan yang anda miliki. Maafkan saya, untuk sulit menerima ketidaksempurnaan anda." Yang di seberang sana hanya diam saja.
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Ah, gadis itu pun berbalik pergi meninggalkan cermin.

I MISS THEM!

I miss all of these rock 'n roll creatures.

Lightbulbs

Thank you for shining the way off of recklessness, impatience, and little ignorance.
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XYZ

source

Some people somehow really enjoy not to finish some stuffs.

Some enjoy not to be able to find their way home.

Some enjoy loneliness just like sipping a cup of Espresso.

Some just do not. Some just do like to do what they wanna do.

We All Need Some Good Love Story

What? #RoyalWedding it is. Wish the couple will live happily ever after. Yes, we all need some good love story. Impeccable one. ;)

"I love the confidence that makeup gives me"

Tyra Banks said that.

This morning I spend my time watching some makeup tutorials and well, they're fabulous! Believe it or not, sometimes wearing makeup makes me feel good, too. Yeah just like Tyra.

You really should check these beauty gurus!
Sarah Victor makeup tutorial
Makeup By Tiffany
Michelle Phan
Pixiwoo

and last but not least, my favourite TipsCantik from @mytipscantik

Watch them and try! Who can resist beautiful eye makeup? I'm totally crrraving for UrbanDecay Eyeshadow Pallette!

HAVE A GOOD SUNDAY!

I'm not Busy, I Just Got a Little Spare Time

"Begitulah orang yang cinta Teknik, Rin. Harus siap kapan pun mendapat panggilan dari Teknik"
An inspirational quote from an inspirational person.

Have you ever wondered where have I been?
Anyway, the title is true. I'm not busy. I still can do things I want to do. I still do my all my homework and task well. I laugh a lot with my those busy people-slash-bestfriendforever. I sleep on time and wake up happily. I made some joyous phone call. I twit a lot.
Sometimes yes, I got tired and fed up with stuffs, but the art of doing life is holding on with things you enjoy to do the most, yes?

I'm currently enjoying doing Teknik stuffs, joining Teknik events, knowing Teknik people and learning a lot from them. A beautiful college ambience, a never-ending spirit, it is.

Keep your spirit up, readers. We're young and we're blessed with huge amounts of talents. Do something good in part you like the most. Love everything you do. Whole-heartedly.


soon-to-be-engineer and proud, FPL.

Why Does It Take a Long Time for Me to Realise?

source.

I started writing things since I owned a note book and a pencil. I was just 6 years old and I wrote a story about friendship. I keep writing the story in that notebook, til one day I felt sore in my fingers and right hand so I decided to stop. I told myself if computer at home did just fine I would write a long story, completely.
Then when I was 10 years old, there was a desktop computer in my house. How amusing it was, I keep playing all games I like and started to type in Microsoft Word. I wrote sort of mystery genre and made them as series. How cool that was, huh? Then I got bored and I quitted but I kept doodling.. and complaining on my diary, yes, I had a diary since I was 8 and wrote on that daily.. until someday I felt like, again, bored.

I knew blog when I was in junior high school, I read few blogs of funny people but never intended to make one. I never thought of writing my daily basis on web so everyone could read and comment upon what happened to me. In a sudden, in 2008, I made one. I started blogging..until now. Even though the boredom sometimes strikes, the writer's block approaches and kills the idea inside my mind, my fingers don't feel like typing anything, so many tasks haunt me and eat the most of my time, but I know.. finally, I can't be detached from this.

Why does it take a very long time to me to realize that writing for myself is not just writing?

"Be yourself. Above all, let who you are, what you are, what you believe, shine through every sentence you write, every piece you finish." - John Jakes

"Writing is a form of personal freedom. It frees us from the mass identity we see in the making all around us. In the end, writers will write not to be outlaw heroes of some underculture but mainly to save themselves, to survive as individuals." - Don Delillo

"Writing is a socially acceptable form of schizophrenia." - E. L. Doctorow

It's difficult to people to accept that I'm an introverted. They usually know the sanguine side of me, the one who always talk, and try to speak to people, even people I barely know. They just don't know how doing things like that, for me, is exhausting. Being with too many people got me easily tired. I love being the lone-wolf, enjoying my spare time.. to write. I can be as melancholy as I want to be. I do not need to spend my voice, talking, I just need to sit and type. I can be myself after all.

One thing I always thank God for, is my passion for writing is as big as my passion for reading. I'm a lit-fetish. The best place in the world for me after my room is bookstore. Any bookstore. It always irritates me to know that there are many illiterates in this world. The universe feels so beautiful when you know it well, and one way to know more about the universe is by reading. I hope someday I can help people so they can read more :)

I personally go into this stuffs, into arranging words so you love to remember and read it. I believe that thoughts will exist forever when you write it down. Note everything, notice. I feel way more relaxed when I do thing like this, in front of my laptop, in a wet sunny afternoon, telling you what is in my mind. I guess no one should give up on their passion. Even when dancing affects my life, writing will be the first. Like forever.

Don't give up on your blog, don't give up on your diary, twit like everytime, freeze your idea, make it last. Keep blogging, keep writing. Write a book if you can. I hope one day we both can see my name on the bookstore, in the best-seller part.
Have an awesome weekend, stay positive!

FPL

"I Woke Up in The Morning and I Knew.." "..Knew what?"

watching (500) Days of Summer like million times. Well, life happens.

Flash!

I'm having busy wonderful moments here and there. Been sleepless, but extremely happy. Meeting and knowing good people. Talking with people with amazing purposes in life. Oh life is good. And I know it is yeaah-good.

How to Dance in The Rain

Another day after he fucking went away. The good news is... I no longer feel the striking pain on my chest. Maybe they're true. About telling you how to dance in the rain. How to cherish and embrace everyday. The clock keeps ticking, I might wait, but it doesn't.
I want to live my life to the fullest, despite the fact he's not around and so on.
Still missing you so bad, dear. But yeah, I'm doing good here.
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You're Going

I don't know. This feels like fucking a dream. Feels like you just don't add your credits and forget to turn on your blackberry service. Feels like you are somehow so busy about college stuffs and don't have sufficient time to call me up on the phone. Feels like you're just meters away. Feels like you will eventually greet me before I go to bed. Feels like this is only again, fucking dream I got last nite. Feels like if I wake up, you'll be here. Fucking here.

But you're going. I can't help saying I miss you so fucking much. Every breath hurts. I just want one simple message via bbm from you. I wish time could go faster. And you'll come back. To my arms.

Fuck distance. Fuck no connection.

I miss you baby. Go home soon.
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Quick!

Just wanna doodle quite few words here. Life's getting better and brighter than ever when you actually do something for others' happiness. Maybe quitting being too self-oriented is what I've been looking for.
Good day, FPL.

2015

DREAM-HOLDER. SEE YOU IN 2015.

Fall in Love Again

..........

kemungkinan apa yang kita sayangi atau cintai tersimpan keburukan didalamnya

dan kemungkinan apa yang kita benci tersimpan kebaikan didalamnya

cinta kepada harta artinya bakhil

cinta kepada wanita artinya alam

cinta kepada diri sendiri artinya bijaksana

cinta kepada mati artinya hidup

dan cinta kepada tuhan artinya taqwa

lemparkanlah seseorang yang bahagia dalam bercinta ke dalam laut pasti ia akan membawa seekor ikan

lemparkanlah pula seseorang yang gagal dalam bercinta ke dalam segudang roti pasti ia akan mati kelaparan

seandainya kita dapat berbicara dalam semua bahasa manusia dan alam tetapi tidak mempunyai perasaan cinta dan kasih

Dirimu taubah seperti gong atau sekedar cakram yang bergemerincing.

..............

Cinta adalah semangat,

Cinta adalah kepercayaan,

Cinta adalah energi yang tidak dapat dimusnahkan.

Ia hanya bisa berubah bentuk.

taken from : Dayen's.


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LAST WEEK WAS WTF-SO-HECTIC LIKE REALLY AND I FELT LIKE LOSING MYSELF...........not.
maybe the text above would tell, lemparkanlah pula seseorang yang gagal dalam bercinta ke dalam segudang roti pasti ia akan mati kelaparan.
Maybe I lost my love in doing certain things. I lost the excitement and spirit. I was just tired with stuffs. Then losing the zest.

But, let's fall in love again. Start all over again. Never too late. Look at the sky, weather changes every second, so do things in life.
I wish you all a very wonderful days ahead, more luck, more love. <3 style="font-style: italic;">being more mature. :p

Love, FPL.

In 7 Days

In 7 days, I'm not gonna be 17 any longer. Here we go, being an adult for true and I cannot say that I am ready for that. Well, being 17 is everything you could ask for. You ain't that old but you know much. You can care and you can give up. Such responsibilities were given to make you grow, and at times, you cannot be blamed for the mistakes upon those. Being 17 means that everyone lets you drive your car, but if you make it scratched, they won't yell at you because you're a fresh driver. You can make a member card at any deptstore with the ID card and for sure getting the coolest discount around. Great? Yes. Adding the college brand new phase. Meeting wonderful people. Guess in 7 days this marvelous age will turn into...the brighter one? I hope so.

xxx Erin

Hey, This is Term 2 and February!

What's up, dearests? Well, the term 2 started yesterday and February starts TODAY!
I'm.. yes, very very overwhelmed.
Thank God.
I got a fanciful holiday, a lot of laughter and more experiences in everything. I've learnt about new things, been accepted in BEM FTUI 2011 as a staff of Research and Development, been accepted in Ikatan Mahasiswa Teknik Industri UI as a staff, too. I've been to my beautiful hometown--spent a lot of time with family, spent quality time with the loveliest captain, met the long-time-no-sees.
I'm feeling contented all over again and gaining tons of spirit to start the days.... exactly to make them worthwhile.

Last term was magical. New things. Adapting. Falling. But standing and running again. I realise I didn't put sufficient efforts in the academic stuff. Clumsy me and blinded by the so-called new life. I know I gotta change, and let's start the good things in Term 2!

IMPROVING MY GPA.
PAYING ATTENTION MORE TO MY SURROUNDING.
STAYING CALM AND LOVELY THROUGH THE DAYS.
DOING THE BEST, PRAYING MUCH, LOVING MORE. \m/

I'm ready to rock the world---- and blogging more, just for you.
from a morning person with love, FPL.

Leave The Baggage

Just read Diana Rikasari's post which titled Breathe and somehow got inspired. What's written there is just so true.
"I live my life without carrying an extra baggage, and walk on with just what I essentially need"

Somehow, without realizing, we spend our days and time to mark on things that hurt us, that don't go in our way. We stumble upon them and curse. We give much feeling to the bad things and somehow carry an 'unnecessary baggage' of hatred, of people we hate.
What for? What for wasting the energy, passion, and all good mood for the 'unnecessary baggage'?
Maybe we should learn not to carry 'that baggage'. Maybe we should just bring the small case fulfilled with things we utterly need and love. Carry the good thing, smile a lot, forgive, and be a bit tough. Don't get easily intimidated, see the brightside. People do mistake, we simply do. Be happy. Stay healthy. Leave the baggage. Make peace with ourselves.
Have a good day ;)

Do Them!

HANDBOOK 2011 :

HEALTH :
01. Drink plenty of water..
02. Eat breakfast like a king,
lunch like a prince and
dinner like a beggar.
03. Live with the 3 E's--Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy.
04. Make time to pray.
05. Play more games.
06. Read more books than you did in 2010.
07. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
08. Sleep for 7 hours.
09. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

PERSONALITY:
10. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
11. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
12. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
13. Dream more while you are awake.
14. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
15. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
16. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
17. Make peace with your past,so it won't spoil the present.
18. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
19. Smile and laugh more.
20. You don't have to win every argument, Agree to disagree

SOCIETY:
21. Call your family often.
22. Each day give something good to others.
23. Forgive everyone for everything..
24. Spend time w/people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6..
25. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.

LIFE:
27. Do the right thing!
28. GOD heals everything.
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change..
30. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
31. The best is yet to come..
32. When awake in the morning,thank GOD for it.
33. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST:

34. Please Forward this to
everyone you care about.

BS

Terasa cukup aneh, setelah sekian lama meninggalkan blog ini, saya kembali dengan bahasa Indonesia. Ada yang mengganggu pikiran saya. Ini sebuah post untuk teman-teman saya. Mungkin saja ini untuk anda. Dan anda adalah salah satu alasan mengapa saya menulisnya dalam bahasa Indonesia.

Post ini berawal dengan kalimat yang sering saya dengar..........

mencintai orang yang salah.
Imej apa yang langsung anda bayangkan? Mencintai orang yang menjual heroin? Mencintai orang yang pernah meninggalkan anda untuk orang lain? Mencintai orang yang hanya punya motor tua dan hanya bisa mengajak anda bepergian dengan KRL? Mencintai orang yang memasang foto dengan mantannya? Mencintai orang yang baru saja merayakan anniversary pertama dengan kekasihnya? Mencintai orang yang adalah sahabat anda? Atau mencintai mantan sahabat anda?

Saya tahu rasanya. Saya pernah melewati salah satunya.

Saat itu saya berpikir, ada dua kemungkinan.
Mungkin anda dan dia hanya dua orang yang tepat. Namun, berada pada situasi yang salah.
Atau mungkin anda dan dia hanya dua orang yang salah. Di waktu yang tepat.
Mana yang akan saya pilih?
Saat itu saya lebih memilih untuk yakin bahwa saya dan dia adalah dua orang yang tepat pada situasi yang salah. Terdengar egois? Tentu tidak seegois yang anda bayangkan bila anda pelakunya. Anda korbannya, seperti saya.

Saya yakin jelas anda tahu ketika anda mencintai orang yang salah.
Dan anda tahu, itu adalah perbuatan yang salah.
Tapi..... Bukankah banyak cara untuk membenarkan hal-hal yang tadinya salah?

Atau hmm, mungkin memang benar cinta bukan sekadar benar atau salah. Bukan sesuatu yang mudah diubah seperti menghapus jawaban di LJK, jadi mau tidak mau harus anda hadapi entah saat menjadi orang yang salah atau berada di situasi yang salah?

Anda yang mengerti betul jawabannya.
Saya tahu tentu bagi yang merasakan, mencintai orang yang salah, bukan semudah menulis post ini. Selamat berjuang, karena mungkin atau bahkan sering kali, hal yang benar diawali dengan kesalahan.

People Will Always Want More

and end up having more. I believe in that scary truth. That no matter how good your life is, after being thankful, you will eventually reach the peak when you say you want anything else. Always like that. Imagine that you have the finest pair of shoes. You're gonna wear them for couple months or so than they will be abandoned in the shoe rack. The best leather-straps watch, your favourite one, which you almost wear everyday, sooner or later it will be dusty and not so lovely. Than you left it on your desk. Your favourite bag? You'd saved your money for quite some time, you bought that bag. You wore that and was proud. Nevertheless, weeks went by and you bought another bag. How about your lovely notebook? iPod? You will always want the next generation. Your favorite novel? No way, its amusement only exists for days. Brand new nail polish? You got screwed by the beauty shop. Clothes? Never ask. You always get the one every week, don't you?

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People? How about people? Will they get boring and not so lovely?