Labels or Love, Winner or Loser

We are human, naturally were born with all sense and feeling inside.
and of course, we were born with a sense of not-wanna-be-a-loser.

So, what's the relation between this post's title and not-wanna-be-a-loser sense?
This one may be boring, but let me write down about love.

Labels here are not about designer stuffs, expensive or masterpiece touch.
Labels here are about "labels on human".
Yes, everyone of us has got the label, such as single, taken, in a relationship, and so on.

Sometimes, people only want the labels. It's true, and it often happens.
Just because the not-wanna-be-a-loser sense they tend to find a girlfriend or a boyfriend faster than their ex does. We all don't know if it's true love or only.....yeah, something that can make you move on.

It's natural, very natural cause we're human not aliens. We don't wanna be a loser, we don't wanna be the poor one. Alone with no one, when someone who dumped us already got a fling.
It's really human to act as the winner.

but are you the real winner?
some Indonesian note books which have got a proverb on every its page says
"the real winner get up even when they can't"

yeah, the real winner is not the one who got the substitute earlier. the real winner is the one who finds another true love earlier.