Le Jardin Secret

This is what I lately try to resolve.
Good manners. Sometimes I wonder how someone can be extremely elegant and poise without being too much. The answers is a compact mix between attitude and good manners. Knowing what to say, when to say, and when to stop. Acknowledging your surrounding, having great composure, and simply being awesome.
The hardest part is not to judge. I mean, when others do not live the way your life to roll, that does not mean they are lower than you or anything, yet having a firm principal towards things you want to achieve is a must.
Well,  I'm trying.