Lacessere Dictis

It's easy for us, human, to let people define who we are. We think much about other's opinions. We got panic knowing some people mute us on Twitter. We listen to whatever others sayings. Get down easily. They judge us guilty,we feel down. They accused us of stealing their happiness, we believe it. They say we're not pretty enough, we go buy certain makeup. They point out that we're fat, we go on diet. Sometimes, we just listen too much. They don't know the story, why bothering much then?

Real Steel

For some people, blaming others for their recklessness in finding happiness is the easiest excuse to feel miserable. They think that what happened to them always because of anyone else's. Why don't you see to yourself first before too much talking? Really, life offers you more than you can hardly manage. Be grateful.

Cogitandum

weheartit.com

It never costs you a lot to make anyone worth happiness happy. You don't have to pay much or struggle so hard. As easy as smile, give a sincere hug to those who need, appreciate their words, feel their happiness, erase the envy in between, and choose to be bubbly no matter what.
What to ask?
Don't bother people who don't appreciate your thoughts, don't bother those who get irritated easily. Some people probably have find their own way to live happily. None of your business. Never your business.
If they don't care... at least, you do.
and it's your deeds and warmth that always matter. Not theirs, anyway.
Choose to be bubbly, warm, and down-to-earth.. no matter what.
Will you?

Meet Ika Natassa #AVYD

Sometimes it's just that fun to see how the universe works. Yes. I met my favorite author, Ika Natassa, last Thursday. Long story short, I won the competition via Twitter that Gramedia held, it was called #AVYD or A Very Yuppy Dinner. They asked the tweeps to mention what our favorite book of Ika Natassa's and spilled the reason. This is what I sent to them;

Couldn't be overjoyed!<3

Kak Ika is very.. witty. I couldn't find any words that reflected her better than witty. She looked smart in her glasses and very relaxed that night. I and another 4 winners gathered with her in Rustique, Plasa Senayan at 7 pm. We talked about many things, started with her photography hobby, how she wrote her books, etc. She shared about her experience in watching F1 and suggested me to do the same. She was very talkative and enjoying the moment although she got things to do too in the next day. Well, that was a real fun! It was truly A Very Yuppy Dinner.

Kollege

Going to university usually means, ‘I don’t know what to do with my life so I’ll go to university”

 That’s written on Paul Arden’s Whatever You Think Think The Opposite. How it exactly splinters to my heart got me questioned. Am I doing right with my life? Is taking this major an answer to my longing? Will it be valuable to me? And another tons of questions that I exactly know, they only can be answered by myself.

Long short story, I had never thought an idea to be an industrial engineer. God bless you, those who already knew it before they enrolled university.

I just did not.

I never wondered about strolling inside plant, factory, between those generators, engine that are conducted by smaller substantial parts like gears and another.

I like Physics but it takes time for me to be excellent at solving its problem. It’s impossible to be good at Physics in a wink, so I decided to feel nothing about Physics. I never hate it and never like it, though.

And here we go, my third term as an engineering student.  I ever told my dad that I was about to give up.

After 18 months, I wanted to give up, sounds funny? Yes, but it was real. I cried in one morning after finals and told him that I was about to quit. That this was not something I wanted to do in my life. I did not want to spend my time counting for the diameter of stuffs I had never seen. I did not want to deal with the haphazard. Everything was just frustrating. My dad said nothing but smiled and asked me just to carry on. He assured me that this was just a part of learning; I should return to my first approaching, to get my degree.

Then for the rest, it’s gonna be up to me to get a job in any wonderful place I will to apply else take my second degree in business or any major I’m interested in.

I eased my mess and rethink. This was just the beginning and the beginning was always the toughest.

Paul Arden concluded in his book, …so don’t go to university unless the subject of your learning is close to your heart.

For the first time in my life, I hope that this one

is close enough to my heart.

That Movie

The funniest things in life mostly are the ones seem like those in few romantic movies.
Meet this guy. Girls say he's charming, manly behaved, nice gestures. He's smart also. Broad-minded. You can talk anything  with him.
The funniest things in life mostly are the ones seem like those in few romantic movies.
Here comes the girl. Not perfect, not the eye candy. Emisive, radiates something that only certain people can get it. You can get the best advice from her, but she won't do it either anyway.
The funniest things in life mostly are the ones seem like those in few romantic movies.
The idea of those two people get along, become friends, share their difference, but feeling very look alike.
The funniest things in life mostly are the ones seem like those in few romantic movies.
They like to talk about their favorite genres, favorite movies, favorite authors.
The funniest things in life mostly are the ones seem like those in few romantic movies.
NO! They are not in love with each other. They both lead their own lives. And always like that.
The funniest things in life mostly are the ones seem like those in few romantic movies.
They forget the fun.
The funniest things in life mostly are the ones seem like those in few romantic movies, or maybe not romantic movies, or maybe like 500 Days of Summer; the funniest things in life are the ones seem like those in certain romantic movies story about love, not a love story.
She is not Summer Finn. He is not Tom Hansen. And the funniest thing that ever happened between them was not those that happen in a love story or in a story about love, either.
But something is missing.
Fortunately, not all thing that is missing should be looked for.


This is a story of boy meets girl. The boy, Tom Hansen of Margate, New Jersey, grew up believing that he'd never truly be happy until the day he met the one. This belief stemmed from early exposure to sad British pop music and a total mis-reading of the movie 'The Graduate'. The girl, Summer Finn of Shinnecock, Michigan, did not share this belief. Since the disintegration of her parent's marriage she'd only love two things. The first was her long dark hair. The second was how easily she could cut it off and not feel a thing. Tom meets Summer on January 8th. He knows almost immediately she is who he has been searching for. This is a story of boy meets girl, but you should know upfront, this is not a love story.  
- (500) Days of Summer

Hopes

"It is a  possibility of making a dream come true that makes life interesting." - The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho

I haven't finished reading it. It's been 27 pages and I truly fall for it, just like how I previously fell with Coelho's masterpiece. Yes it is very true, the one that makes life interesting is that possibility. That in a wink, you always can get what you want and what you need. Amazing?

Keep the positivity alive and.. make them come true. Godspeed.

A Very Late Happy New Year

I've been through a tough week. Well, finals. We know that. All I can do now is praying to God and hope everything falls into place. Aamin.
This is funny, how the first week of the year 2012 was closely looked like the first week 2011...even honestly I forget how it was. What is up, people? What is up with your resolutions? I haven't written mine here. Since I'd love to make it on CS4 and now in my Mac I don't have any photo editor but Pixlr-o-matic, here we go.. let me just write and hopefully it can help me reduce my fear plus let go of last week. Let go.

1. Improving my GPA. Well, the number won't be mentioned but yeah, this is the first.
2. Get an iPad 2 3G 16 GB. Anyone?
3. 55kgs..yeah
4. 5 times prayer, much praying, and much giving.
5. Joining a jazz class
6. Get a pair of Melissa Shoes
7. Get a pair of TLJs
8. Be more positive
9. Start to recall myself as a blogger or a writer all over again
10. Take a lot of pictures and share it to all of you
11. Start a career as a model. Yes. (?)
12. Do saving in the newest account.

Isn't it easy to give me a birthday present now and then? :p
HOPE ALL CAN BE REACHED.
HAPPY PROSPEROUS 2012, rock it, and give your best shot!